Life of Bjoernar

Hi guys!

It's finally weekend again, and it's time to relax. Or isn't? Weekends is the days you have one or two days off from work or school, but does that mean that you don't need to worry about school or work? Unfortunately, it doesn't. Some jobs and some schools gives you a task you need to work on in the weekend. If you don't do it in the weekend, you might risk your job or get a F on an assignment at school. Therefore you know that your task has to be done/developed by the weekend. The reason we get those task I think is because you do have a job to do. If you want to keep your job, you do the task. If you want good grades after school, you do the task. Sometimes you got to sacrifice a weekend for a task.

No one says you have to do it in the weekend, but do not blame your boss or your teacher for giving a task right before a weekend. The only thing they care about is that it gets done, and gets done in time. That's their job. If they didn't care, then they probably wouldn't kept the job they have. If they aren't heartless, they'll understand the fact that you want the weekend taking time to relax. Still, it's their duty to give you these tasks if necessary. You can have the nicest boss/teacher in the world, but it's still has to do the duty of giving you the tasks necessary.

If the timing of the task isn't good, you just have to live with that. It's up to you how much you care about your future. We've seen examples of people not caring about doing the tasks they get, if not for having to do it in the weekend. They've lost their jobs. They've gotten a bad grade, or maybe failed completely at school. If this is what you want, then don't do the task(s) you're suppose to do. If you DON'T want to lose your job, good grades or what you need to fulfill your dream, do your task(s)!

Let's look at this from a different angle. You want to become a lawyer. You've done great at school when the tasks don't has to be done between the weekend. When you suddenly gets a task you have to do in the weekend to succeed, do you do it? Do you sacrifice one single weekend for your great carrier or do you take the weekend as if it's the days you have to relax? You get the task on Friday, and it has to be done by Tuesday. Do you wait until Monday and not having a full task to return, or do you take the weekend (or a big part of the weekend) to do it? If you wanted to be a lawyer, you would do it in the weekend. If the job as a lawyer only is a dream, then you would wait until Monday.

It's all about how much you care for your ambitions. The reason I'm talking about this, is because I'm/have been into this kind of tasks. I have a big dream of becoming a man with a great job and living in the United States of America. If I'm gonna make that dream come true, I have to do those tasks that requires the weekend to do it. It's not motivating to do it in the weekend, but what has to be done just has to be done. That's the only way to accomplish your dreams if the weekend needs to be sacrificed to make it come true.

Your friends might be assaulted for believing that you consider job/school over them. The truth is that you can be a good person and/or have a great life without being the number one. You can fail at a task, and it still means that you can have a great life. You don't need the job you want to feel or have the great life you want. The only reason I brought this up is because you should try to follow your ambitions. I did not say that you should do the task just to get a good life. That would be lying. You should do the task to fulfill you ambitions. That's what it is about. I have some huge ambitions, but I know that if I don't fulfill my ambitions I'm still gonna have a great life. Your happiness isn't to the right of this text.

Conclusion: Happiness isn't in cash, it's in your friends and family. Ambitions might be in cash, but ambitions doesn't has to be a part of happiness. It shouldn't either.

I hope you enjoyed today's blog. I didn't get to write a blog last night, therefore I made a better blog today than yesterdays blog would have been. Stay tuned for more!

I'll see you later!
 

Hi guys!

Another beautiful day in a beautiful world : ). This week has been terrific so far, and I think it's gonna keep being terrific. Despite the cold whether, it's been just terrific. I have found the reason why; It's Christmas time! Christmas is based on happiness and joy, so it gotta be the Christmas that makes me feel so happy. Although December 1st is tomorrow, I feel the Christmas coming!

Unfortunately, my parents are separated. They've been separated for two years, so I know how the Christmas is without one of them. Still I feel that's the only thing providing Christmas for being Christmas. Some wise guy said that time heals all wounds. I disagree. Nothing is like celebrating Christmas with both parents.

Well, I'm obviously gonna celebrate Christmas with my dad and my step-mother (I just call her step-mother in the blog. I don't usually call her that, but it's the easiest word to use so you'll understand). That's a thought that are a little strange to handle, but I guess I have to give it a try. I gotta be honest; when I heard that idea, I was like "No, I'm not ready to do that yet". But by giving some time to think about it, I actually think it's gonna be great anyway.

I gotta tell you something right away. When people think about the word "step-mother", they think about an evil witch that totally ruins their life. I disagree that as well. My "step-mother" is the best step-mother I could ever want. She's kind, she's funny and last, but not least she makes my dad happy. That's what means the most to be; that my dad's happy. Things were (and still are) kinda ruff for me, but by seeing my dad being happy makes the whole situation easier. Even though it's the second Christmas my parents are separated, it's hard to overcome. It's a little special to share these kind of things with others, so I hope you appreciate it.

More and more people are beginning to read the blog, and I believe that just wonderful. I also think someone should leave a comment or something. Tell me what to improve, what's good about the blog, what's bad about the blog, how you feel today - whatever you want! I already got some comments from one of my greatest friend, Lisa, so you should really check out her blog! Click here to check out her blog (the page is translated to English, just for you : D ). If you decide that you aren't gonna listen to me, then I just want to say that I'm satisfied that readers all around the world would like to read my blog. Spread the word people : )! Anyway, thank you.

Do you have a YouTube account or visit YouTube often? Make sure to check out my suggestion to a intro for my video blog here, and tell me if you like it or not (beware that I think it's a little bit CTFxC look-a-like. So if you agree, tell me so I won't use it).

I guess this is what you get from me tonight. My final message to you from me is: "Christmas is coming up. Be happy and enjoy Christmas like we're suppose to do. Christmas is only one a year. Spend it wisely!"

I'll see you later, beloved readers! : )