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Showing posts with label friendship. Show all posts
Showing posts with label friendship. Show all posts
Monday, March 21
Define The Word «Friend»
If you check out the dictionary, how do they define the word «friend»? How do you define the word friend? A friend means so much. There are good friends. There are bad friends. There are people who’s more than a friend, and those who’s less than being a friend. How do you know where on the scale your friend is?
This is a question I’m still finding difficult to answer. Still, I think I know what’s required to be a good friend. A real friend is the one waiting for you, showing sympathy or empathy, hanging out with you not because of something you have +++. But what if a friend is choosing another guy over you? What if your good friend always calls another guy, asks to hang out with him/her instead of you or something that I mentioned previously? Is that a good friend? I know a guy who does that. He does it towards me. One of my friends calls another guy, hangs out with him, giving him care and just being a better friend to another guy. He had described me as a good friend, but what the heck? If I were a good friend, he would have called me, and cared a little more.
I know I just wrote a great blog about me not being appreciative, but the limit gotta be somewhere. But help me figure this out: no one actually calls me. No one is calling just talk. Is it just me being in the wrong social environment? Luckily, there is someone who cares. The weirdest thing about that rare fact is that they are girls. My female friends are so much nicer to me. I do have male friends to, but the girls care more. Well, it speaks for itself. Girls are more caring.
I hope things will improve when I’m moving. Maybe I’m getting into a better social environment than I’m living in right now. Obviously it’s all about being like everyone else at this place. So at the end of the blog I wanna take a moment to thank those of my friends who isn’t an @*!. :-)
This is a question I’m still finding difficult to answer. Still, I think I know what’s required to be a good friend. A real friend is the one waiting for you, showing sympathy or empathy, hanging out with you not because of something you have +++. But what if a friend is choosing another guy over you? What if your good friend always calls another guy, asks to hang out with him/her instead of you or something that I mentioned previously? Is that a good friend? I know a guy who does that. He does it towards me. One of my friends calls another guy, hangs out with him, giving him care and just being a better friend to another guy. He had described me as a good friend, but what the heck? If I were a good friend, he would have called me, and cared a little more.
I know I just wrote a great blog about me not being appreciative, but the limit gotta be somewhere. But help me figure this out: no one actually calls me. No one is calling just talk. Is it just me being in the wrong social environment? Luckily, there is someone who cares. The weirdest thing about that rare fact is that they are girls. My female friends are so much nicer to me. I do have male friends to, but the girls care more. Well, it speaks for itself. Girls are more caring.
I hope things will improve when I’m moving. Maybe I’m getting into a better social environment than I’m living in right now. Obviously it’s all about being like everyone else at this place. So at the end of the blog I wanna take a moment to thank those of my friends who isn’t an @*!. :-)
Thursday, January 27
January 27th update!
Hey guys!
Today has been a really fun day. Today I helped moving some stuff in the club, and the result ended up awesome! I love my two friends, Daniel and Mattias, which is the guys I've been hanging out with all day. There's also been a tragic moment today (not like someone has died or anything), but there was something that were too stupid to be true. Lol.
Anyway, we cranked the music up loud in the club and just chilled out with the bass all night. It's great to have some friends you're able to trust and have fun with. Daniel, Mattias, I love you guys! <3
Right now I'm doing an assignment that has to be done by tomorrow... *sigh*. Well, I guess it has to be done. ;-)
I'm just locked and loaded for a great weekend right now. It's not been a hard week, in fact, it's been a great week, but I love the weekends a lot.
By the way, I'm considering making a blog called "Perfect Day", that gives tips about how to make your day successful. How about that, huh? :D Yeah, I rock. :-D Oh, by the way, I already did. XD
Tomorrow I promise you a better blog post. I gotta do some work, but I'll catch up with you later. :-)
Today has been a really fun day. Today I helped moving some stuff in the club, and the result ended up awesome! I love my two friends, Daniel and Mattias, which is the guys I've been hanging out with all day. There's also been a tragic moment today (not like someone has died or anything), but there was something that were too stupid to be true. Lol.
Anyway, we cranked the music up loud in the club and just chilled out with the bass all night. It's great to have some friends you're able to trust and have fun with. Daniel, Mattias, I love you guys! <3
Right now I'm doing an assignment that has to be done by tomorrow... *sigh*. Well, I guess it has to be done. ;-)
I'm just locked and loaded for a great weekend right now. It's not been a hard week, in fact, it's been a great week, but I love the weekends a lot.
By the way, I'm considering making a blog called "Perfect Day", that gives tips about how to make your day successful. How about that, huh? :D Yeah, I rock. :-D Oh, by the way, I already did. XD
Tomorrow I promise you a better blog post. I gotta do some work, but I'll catch up with you later. :-)
Thursday, January 6
There for You!
Hi guys!
What's up with you? I'm feeling extremely happy today. I don't know why, but I do. Today has been very relaxing. There's been a minimum of stress and a good day to be happy at. I can't stop thinking about my Macbook Pro which is on the way to my arms. I'm so excited! I feel very positive about working hard these last 6 mounts I got left here. I'm getting assignments I feel good about and just know that I got the strength to work hard. I see other people being annoyed by everything today, while I'm just having a good time. Too bad that they can't be happy. Someone's always annoyed. But I don't get influenced by others anger, depression +++. I'm happy, don't deny it! :-D
There was a dog running by our house for a while ago. I was checking if someone were going for a walk with it, but it was the dog all alone. I tried to whistle after him, but he didn't come back. I wonder who owns him. There aren't a lot of people living in this town, so I would probably know the owner if I only knew who it was.
OMG I love Katy Perry. Suddenly I like here music. It's weird. The first time I heard her, I didn't like her. My mind change after I heard "Firework", "Teenage Dream" and "If We Ever Meet Again". I guess I'm changing some more. Anyway, she's awesome. I used to be all about metal and such thing, but now I'm actually into Katy Perry, Taio Cruz, David Guetta, Rihanna and more. That's a good thing. I can't live with metal, and only metal. Therefore it's good that I listen to other genres and fall in love with them as well. So as you know, Katy Perry is the greatest for now.
I seriously want to move to the United States now. I think I'm gonna try living there for a year or two maybe, and see if it's something for me. I can't move without trying to live there first, can I? I don't know where in the US I should move in that case. I was thinking about Phoenix, Los Angeles or New York. I like the city (also some nature environment depending on what kind of nature environment), therefore it's natural to live in a city. If some of you got some ideas of great places to live in the US, tell me. I wanna know so I can consider it. Why US, you might ask. The reasons for wanting to move to the US most be because of the opportunities the USA has, the large range of items (like we don't have in Norway) and because the way the wealthy Americans live. It's hard to express all of the reasons, but moving to the US feels right (and tempting).
If I move, I know at least that my life in Norway has been wonderful. I'm not moving yet, so I can't say this too soon. But I know that I got friends standing up for me when I need it. I always has someone to turn to if I need it. Despite that I haven't been the nicest, coolest and greatest human on earth, I always have someone to turn to. That means a lot. When I wonder about something, someone always answers. When I need comfort, someone always gives me that. I know the greatest people in the world. Not because they're Nelson Mandela or something, but because they are there for me. If and when I move to the US, I know that I've left a place where people care about me. And that I can return with the smiles I got before I went. I've felt sorrow, disappointment, anger and stress. But what I've also felt is happiness. That's what left in my mind. Everybody goes through all these difficult things, but your happiness will be in your mind forever. I love the people that care about me. Thank you. You mean the world to me.
When I was younger I thought I had no one to turn to if I needed it. I thought no one cared about me, and that I was just a background. I was wrong. Very wrong. I guess I didn't take time to think. I got a lot of people to turn to. So do you if you feel the same way as I did. Just think about who you talk to every day. Who do you smile to? Who do you admire? These persons is there for you. It might just be a song that makes you happy. It saves your day, and it counts as someone who is there for you. But you don't care about this "friendship" type of talk I do, so I'm gonna stop.
You know, tell me what you want on the blog...
I'm done for today, I gotta get up early getting out of town.
I'll see you later!
What's up with you? I'm feeling extremely happy today. I don't know why, but I do. Today has been very relaxing. There's been a minimum of stress and a good day to be happy at. I can't stop thinking about my Macbook Pro which is on the way to my arms. I'm so excited! I feel very positive about working hard these last 6 mounts I got left here. I'm getting assignments I feel good about and just know that I got the strength to work hard. I see other people being annoyed by everything today, while I'm just having a good time. Too bad that they can't be happy. Someone's always annoyed. But I don't get influenced by others anger, depression +++. I'm happy, don't deny it! :-D
There was a dog running by our house for a while ago. I was checking if someone were going for a walk with it, but it was the dog all alone. I tried to whistle after him, but he didn't come back. I wonder who owns him. There aren't a lot of people living in this town, so I would probably know the owner if I only knew who it was.
OMG I love Katy Perry. Suddenly I like here music. It's weird. The first time I heard her, I didn't like her. My mind change after I heard "Firework", "Teenage Dream" and "If We Ever Meet Again". I guess I'm changing some more. Anyway, she's awesome. I used to be all about metal and such thing, but now I'm actually into Katy Perry, Taio Cruz, David Guetta, Rihanna and more. That's a good thing. I can't live with metal, and only metal. Therefore it's good that I listen to other genres and fall in love with them as well. So as you know, Katy Perry is the greatest for now.
I seriously want to move to the United States now. I think I'm gonna try living there for a year or two maybe, and see if it's something for me. I can't move without trying to live there first, can I? I don't know where in the US I should move in that case. I was thinking about Phoenix, Los Angeles or New York. I like the city (also some nature environment depending on what kind of nature environment), therefore it's natural to live in a city. If some of you got some ideas of great places to live in the US, tell me. I wanna know so I can consider it. Why US, you might ask. The reasons for wanting to move to the US most be because of the opportunities the USA has, the large range of items (like we don't have in Norway) and because the way the wealthy Americans live. It's hard to express all of the reasons, but moving to the US feels right (and tempting).
If I move, I know at least that my life in Norway has been wonderful. I'm not moving yet, so I can't say this too soon. But I know that I got friends standing up for me when I need it. I always has someone to turn to if I need it. Despite that I haven't been the nicest, coolest and greatest human on earth, I always have someone to turn to. That means a lot. When I wonder about something, someone always answers. When I need comfort, someone always gives me that. I know the greatest people in the world. Not because they're Nelson Mandela or something, but because they are there for me. If and when I move to the US, I know that I've left a place where people care about me. And that I can return with the smiles I got before I went. I've felt sorrow, disappointment, anger and stress. But what I've also felt is happiness. That's what left in my mind. Everybody goes through all these difficult things, but your happiness will be in your mind forever. I love the people that care about me. Thank you. You mean the world to me.When I was younger I thought I had no one to turn to if I needed it. I thought no one cared about me, and that I was just a background. I was wrong. Very wrong. I guess I didn't take time to think. I got a lot of people to turn to. So do you if you feel the same way as I did. Just think about who you talk to every day. Who do you smile to? Who do you admire? These persons is there for you. It might just be a song that makes you happy. It saves your day, and it counts as someone who is there for you. But you don't care about this "friendship" type of talk I do, so I'm gonna stop.
You know, tell me what you want on the blog...
I'm done for today, I gotta get up early getting out of town.
I'll see you later!
Wednesday, December 29
Life Goes On
Hi guys!
Have you ever woke up in the morning and NOT think about yesterdays mistakes? Especially when you should have, haven't you thought about it? I experienced this morning. Yesterday I was suppose to meat two of my best friends, Sofia and Lisa, but I was too exhausted to join them. I felt awful about it yesterday (after all, I said that I got to improve myself). Amazingly enough, I didn't think about it when I woke up this morning. I usually think about it for a long time feeling bad about it. Of course I feel bad about it, but life goes on. You can't stop living the day today if you can't accept yesterday. I will learn from this, but I just need to move on. Yes, it was a bad thing to do, but you can't get stuck in a situation and let your life pass by. Think about it.
If someone asks you in 20 years what you did as a youth, your answer shouldn't be "feeling bad". Bad things happen to every single person on earth (it does), just accept it. Some things are harder to get over than other, but don't get stuck in a small situation. I can meat my friends another day. It's not like it's the last possible day to meat them. I'm actually moving into the same city that one of my friends are living in. So it's definitely not the last time I see them. Therefore you might get over it easier, despite the fact that it was bad of me to not be exhausted I just have to get over it. I think I kinda did this morning.
Now you probably got the feeling of me being a baby, but very small things has been bothering me for a while in my life. Now I can accept it and move on.
So, I'm gonna tell you a little about the day tomorrow. Tomorrow I'm going to Sweden to be in the best alpine center I know about (in other words; the best I've been at). I'm going there with three great friends. Linn (played/plays in a band with her), Per Kristian (a cool dude I've known for a while) and my best friend Mattias (wild drummer and friend). Anyway, I think we're gonna have a lot of fun despite my skiing skills. I'm telling you this once, and no more: I was not born with skies on my feet like (almost) all Norwegians has. Snowblades are hardcore, OK?! I taken time to learn anything else like Twin-tip or snowboard. So I'm riding safe on Snowblades, even though it's silly. Sorry, but it is.
We are kinda worried that we're not gonna get the enthusiasm and hyperactive tomorrow. Especially Linn and I. Nothing is like being hyperactive on a alpine trip. Well, Mattias doesn't need that actually. He is always hyperactive :-)! That's great, cause then he will go nuts when drinking caffeine.
I'll see you later!
Have you ever woke up in the morning and NOT think about yesterdays mistakes? Especially when you should have, haven't you thought about it? I experienced this morning. Yesterday I was suppose to meat two of my best friends, Sofia and Lisa, but I was too exhausted to join them. I felt awful about it yesterday (after all, I said that I got to improve myself). Amazingly enough, I didn't think about it when I woke up this morning. I usually think about it for a long time feeling bad about it. Of course I feel bad about it, but life goes on. You can't stop living the day today if you can't accept yesterday. I will learn from this, but I just need to move on. Yes, it was a bad thing to do, but you can't get stuck in a situation and let your life pass by. Think about it.
If someone asks you in 20 years what you did as a youth, your answer shouldn't be "feeling bad". Bad things happen to every single person on earth (it does), just accept it. Some things are harder to get over than other, but don't get stuck in a small situation. I can meat my friends another day. It's not like it's the last possible day to meat them. I'm actually moving into the same city that one of my friends are living in. So it's definitely not the last time I see them. Therefore you might get over it easier, despite the fact that it was bad of me to not be exhausted I just have to get over it. I think I kinda did this morning.
Now you probably got the feeling of me being a baby, but very small things has been bothering me for a while in my life. Now I can accept it and move on.
Even though I'm over it, I'm sorry about not having the possibility to meat my friends.
So, I'm gonna tell you a little about the day tomorrow. Tomorrow I'm going to Sweden to be in the best alpine center I know about (in other words; the best I've been at). I'm going there with three great friends. Linn (played/plays in a band with her), Per Kristian (a cool dude I've known for a while) and my best friend Mattias (wild drummer and friend). Anyway, I think we're gonna have a lot of fun despite my skiing skills. I'm telling you this once, and no more: I was not born with skies on my feet like (almost) all Norwegians has. Snowblades are hardcore, OK?! I taken time to learn anything else like Twin-tip or snowboard. So I'm riding safe on Snowblades, even though it's silly. Sorry, but it is.We are kinda worried that we're not gonna get the enthusiasm and hyperactive tomorrow. Especially Linn and I. Nothing is like being hyperactive on a alpine trip. Well, Mattias doesn't need that actually. He is always hyperactive :-)! That's great, cause then he will go nuts when drinking caffeine.
In other words: tomorrow's gonna be great! :-)I gotta pack for tomorrow, but make sure to stay tuned at my blog! :-)
I'll see you later!
Tuesday, December 28
Admire Your Surroundings
Hi guys!
You know, when I got putted out for being in a committee, I did not realize what it would mean to others. Yes, I saw a lot of drunk underage teenagers without knowledge to control them self. But the most important thing is that I saw two of my best friends there; Sofia and Lisa. Now, I'm gonna be straight with you. Sofia told me to write about her, so this is sorta why I'm bringing this up. But there is something else. Something really important about the fact that Sofia and Lisa are two of the best friends I got out of town.
Listen. Every time when they ask if I wanna do something with them (don't get me wrong), I reject that claiming that I'm sick and so on. Sometimes I've actually been ill, but is some of the illness caused by being nervous? I'm the kind of guy that takes a doubt for a reason to deny. Now, what I mean is that I get the feeling of not wanting to. I realized today that I actually want to hang out with them. I don't see them a lot (which I will when I move; trust me), so it's even more important to use the chances I got and stop being such a baby. God. It's not them, it's me; that in this case is NOT a cliché. I don't know why I do this, but it gotta end now!
How can I reject two awesome girls like them? How? It's stupid. Right now, they're the best friends I got. Now, don't get to upset, cause I got some other best friends. Anyway, those girls are some of the greatest humans I know. Who can deny such kindness and hotness? Obviously, I can. But that ends now! The reason why I'm telling this is; don't get into the same mistakes I did. When you feel like not wanting to, do it. You'll love it. After spending some time with them today, I'm happy that I actually got out of my bed. Our mind is so twisted; untwist it! See the reality of your life. Your friends means the most to you (almost, it depends of what you're combining it with). Don't do like me by risking a loss of friendship. It's just unbelievable that they still like me. Thank whoever it is to thank for this great opportunity. I'm not Christian, so I won't thank God. But I'll tell you this; there is someone to thank. I know it. Despite that I'm living at the most boring place on the planet, I'm really glad to be living the life I am. If I hadn't got those kinds of friends I got, then I'll be devastated.
Friendship. Huh. That really is a topic that comes out a lot. Why? Easy; they are your surroundings. You think you were surrounded by cars, noise, nature and so on? No. Most of your surroundings are your friends. Don't waste them. Don't fall into a black hole containing nothing. I love my friends. I'm thankful for having them. :-)
Well, since it's 3 AM here, I'm gonna stop. Sorry...
I'll see you later!
Sunday, December 26
Finding Your Best Friends
Ho-Ho guys!
So the Christmas Eve and the 1st Christmas day is over. Therefore I can go back to blogging again. Today I have no idea of what I'm gonna do. It would be so much better if I vlogged instead, cause then the action would happen while recording. That would be so great, to actually have something to show right a way instead try finding something to write. There's not enough by writing what I did today, and a little bit about something something important in our lives. Today I guess that I will be chilling a lot and just do whatever I want. There's gonna be a h*** of a day tomorrow, when I have to sell tickets for a party with my friends (which is a party I won't attend to even if I could). Well, since I wrote that in the "Blending In Without Blending It", I can add that I got some really supportive friends. Most of them supports me for being a person saying no to alcohol. Those friends I like to call "My Best Friends".
The real, best friends comes from those who actually care about you. It's OK to have a friend who only likes to play video games with you. That might be cool, but that's not who your best friend is. Your best friend is the one who supports you at those things that sucks, and who really cares about you. You need to support them as well, otherwise the other person won't support you. That's why I have a hard time telling who's my best friend(s). I really supports a lot of people, but they don't support me back. Therefore, they're not my best friends. That means that there is only a few persons I call "Best Friends". Your best friends isn't those who says: "I love you", a million times. Those you might just forget. A friendship is based on trust and being there for another one. If those simple things are missing, then forget it; it's not a friendship of a best friend.
You know, that's why I've been so skeptic about who's my best friends. Sometimes when you really think about what a best friend is, maybe the one you though was your best friend isn't. What people often associate a best friend with, is if it's possible to do something fun with him. That's what people think when they're trying to find out if this person really is your best friend. So for now, I'll just wait and see who really is my best friends. Luckily I've found some of my best friends. Now, this might be the only best friends I got. If it is, I'm really glad to have those best friends I got. They mean the world to me.
You know that I've been telling you about me wanting to buy a Macbook Pro for a while? Well, dreams are about to become reality! I am finally gonna get myself a Macbook Pro 13 Inch, and I'm so exited about it! I've been saving money for a while now, and now I'm almost done. But my dad said that I couldn't wait for it anymore, so he said that he's paying the last part I haven't got yet (which I later will pay back). That's just too kind to do. So that means that I'm finally getting one. I hope I can order it in time to get here before the school starts, but I don't think I will make it. But it's all about ordering it and getting it as soon as possible that counts. I believe that I've bee very patient about the Macbook (even though I'm nagging about it all the time), so I don't want to wait any more. I'm really looking forward to buying it! I wouldn't be able to buy it now if I bought what I was supposed to buy to the XBOX 360, so it kinda saved me. I can't imagine pissed I would be if I had bought those things I were suppose to buy to my XBOX 360.
This was a long blog post, wasn't it? It's starting to come back. Well, I'm ending todays blog right here, but don't worry; I'm back tomorrow!
I'll see you later!
So the Christmas Eve and the 1st Christmas day is over. Therefore I can go back to blogging again. Today I have no idea of what I'm gonna do. It would be so much better if I vlogged instead, cause then the action would happen while recording. That would be so great, to actually have something to show right a way instead try finding something to write. There's not enough by writing what I did today, and a little bit about something something important in our lives. Today I guess that I will be chilling a lot and just do whatever I want. There's gonna be a h*** of a day tomorrow, when I have to sell tickets for a party with my friends (which is a party I won't attend to even if I could). Well, since I wrote that in the "Blending In Without Blending It", I can add that I got some really supportive friends. Most of them supports me for being a person saying no to alcohol. Those friends I like to call "My Best Friends".
The real, best friends comes from those who actually care about you. It's OK to have a friend who only likes to play video games with you. That might be cool, but that's not who your best friend is. Your best friend is the one who supports you at those things that sucks, and who really cares about you. You need to support them as well, otherwise the other person won't support you. That's why I have a hard time telling who's my best friend(s). I really supports a lot of people, but they don't support me back. Therefore, they're not my best friends. That means that there is only a few persons I call "Best Friends". Your best friends isn't those who says: "I love you", a million times. Those you might just forget. A friendship is based on trust and being there for another one. If those simple things are missing, then forget it; it's not a friendship of a best friend.You know, that's why I've been so skeptic about who's my best friends. Sometimes when you really think about what a best friend is, maybe the one you though was your best friend isn't. What people often associate a best friend with, is if it's possible to do something fun with him. That's what people think when they're trying to find out if this person really is your best friend. So for now, I'll just wait and see who really is my best friends. Luckily I've found some of my best friends. Now, this might be the only best friends I got. If it is, I'm really glad to have those best friends I got. They mean the world to me.
Let me know what you think a best friend is all about! The comments are free for all, so comment now!LOL, I love "Home Alone". The first "Home Alone" movie is great. Kevin, the little kid left alone at home for Christmas, has some really funny expressions sometimes. For instance, when he's screaming in the bathroom. I think "Home Alone" is one of the greatest Christmas movies made of all time, after my opinion. There is this Christmas movie they always broadcast on NRK (our oldest TV channel as I've said earlier in my blog). It's called Cinderella and the three... nuts... x ). Anyway, a lot of people in Norway says that this movie is the best Christmas movie of all time. I kinda disagree. First of all; it's dubbed from Czech to Norwegian, where all of the characters (including the females) has the same man voice. Dennis Storhøi has a great voice for the dubbing, but I think the whole idea of dubbing the movie (and dubbing it like that) really is weird. Second of all; Home Alone is so much cooler :-D! It's a random fact, OK? :-D
You know that I've been telling you about me wanting to buy a Macbook Pro for a while? Well, dreams are about to become reality! I am finally gonna get myself a Macbook Pro 13 Inch, and I'm so exited about it! I've been saving money for a while now, and now I'm almost done. But my dad said that I couldn't wait for it anymore, so he said that he's paying the last part I haven't got yet (which I later will pay back). That's just too kind to do. So that means that I'm finally getting one. I hope I can order it in time to get here before the school starts, but I don't think I will make it. But it's all about ordering it and getting it as soon as possible that counts. I believe that I've bee very patient about the Macbook (even though I'm nagging about it all the time), so I don't want to wait any more. I'm really looking forward to buying it! I wouldn't be able to buy it now if I bought what I was supposed to buy to the XBOX 360, so it kinda saved me. I can't imagine pissed I would be if I had bought those things I were suppose to buy to my XBOX 360.This was a long blog post, wasn't it? It's starting to come back. Well, I'm ending todays blog right here, but don't worry; I'm back tomorrow!
I'll see you later!
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